Wednesday, May 04, 2022

Happy Birthday, Mom

Mom would've been 79 this year. Alas, she didn't make it past 66. Can't say that I was an exemplary son while she was alive, and I'm not sure I've done her proud since. She deserved a better son, and she deserved a better fate than brain cancer. But you play the hand you're dealt, I guess. I know there are people who say they live lives without regret, but I don't mind confessing I have many regrets, particularly regarding things I could have done better.

I'll try harder tomorrow.

For all we ought to have thought
but have not thought
For all we ought to have said
but have not said
For all we ought to have done
but have not done
I pray thee, God, for forgiveness

—Ibn Fadlan, "The Thirteenth Warrior"


L to R: my brother Sean, Mom, and me, somewhere on
Skyline Drive, overlooking the Shenandoah Valley


my brother David and Mom, sitting at National Airport


Sean hugging Mom




1 comment:

John Mac said...

A mother's love is unconditional. You were there for her when she needed you most. She lives on in your heart and memories. Living your best life is a great way to honor her. Thanks for sharing this heartfelt birthday tribute.