who am I?

If you're intent on altering your body in an effort to conform to your cell-deep conviction of what your body should be, then do so with my blessing. But if you've somehow convinced yourself that you've gone from one biological sex to another, I can't help you there. When I see a trans woman flipping her lid after being misgendered, I ponder the irony of how flipping out that aggressively is such a masculine thing to do.